"Do not be afraid; I am the first and the last, and the living one. I was dead, and see, I am alive forever and ever; and I have the keys of Death and of Hades. Now write what you have seen, what is, and what is to take place after this." Rev. 1:17-19.

Saturday, September 19, 2015

Envy, Children, and Spray Paint: An "Intergenerational" Sermon



Pentecost 17 B, Proper 20                                                                              September 20, 2015
James 3:13-4:3, 7-8a
Mark 9:30-37


  Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.


Be honest now, kids: who enjoys getting their brother or sister in trouble? They’re just asking for it, aren’t they? They get way more attention than they deserve. You just want to get your fair share once in awhile, right, even if it’s at their expense? Maybe you can identify with the big sister in Judy Blume’s book, The Pain and the Great One:
"[My little brother’s] got to be first/ To show Mom his schoolwork./ She says ooh and aah/ All over his pictures/ Which aren’t great at all/ But just ordinary/ First grade stuff…. And I would really like to know/ Why the cat sleeps on [his] bed/ Instead of mine? Especially since I am the one/ Who feeds her./ That is the meanest thing of all.”
Or maybe you feel for the little brother as he fusses about his big sister: “She thinks she’s great/ Just because she can/ Play the piano/ And you can tell/ The songs are real ones … My sister thinks she’s so great/ Just because she can work/ the can opener. Which means she gets to feed the cat./ Which means the cat/ Likes her better than me/ Just because she feeds her.”[1]

I’m not so sure that the cat really loves one child better than the other. But I can sure identify with these kids just the same! Can’t you? Even as an adult, I always have my eyes on other people, just to be sure that nobody has it better than I do. And when I convince myself that they do have it better—boy, does that turn me bitter and unhappy inside! Look at that colleague with every church pew full every Sunday! He has bad theology, and one day he’ll get his comeuppance. And the lady on the treadmill at the gym who runs for 30 minutes while I get tired just walking? It sure served her right when she pulled her hamstring. And the neighbor who just got back from the Bahamas while I was working and shoveling snow from my driveway every day? I’m just going to dump all my snow in front of his mailbox so he can’t get his mail. He’ll never guess it was me, and that inconvenience will sure take him down a peg. Yes, grown-ups and kids alike suffer from the sin of envy: “dissatisfaction with our place in God’s order of creation, manifested in begrudging [God’s] gifts to others.” [2]
Sometimes, we're just coveting. Coveting is wanting things: We covet somebody’s designer purse, or his fancy car. When we envy, however, we are worried about how we measure up with someone else. We feel bad about ourselves, and so we don’t want anyone else to have it better than we do. We want to make them miserable, too. My favorite joke about envy goes something like this: An Englishwoman and a farmer find a bottle with a genie in it. They are each given one wish. The woman tells the genie about a friend of hers who has a beautiful cottage. “I want one like that,” she says, “except with an extra bedroom and a fancier garden.” The farmer tells the genie about a neighbor who has a cow that produces rivers of rich milk, milk that makes tons of wonderful cream and delicious butter. “I want that cow,” says the farmer “… dead.”[3] The farmer suffers from envy.
Envy, because it is so filled with bitterness that it seeks the harm of the other party, is a dangerous sin—one that can result in hatred, murder, and violence. Recall the story of Joseph in the Hebrew Scriptures. His older brothers think that their father loves Joseph better than he loves them. They envy his position in the family. But they don’t just rant about it. They lure him into a pit in the desert, where they leave him to be stolen away as a slave in Egypt. In today’s Epistle, James warns us sternly about the dangers of envy: “For where there is envy and selfish ambition, there will also be disorder and wickedness of every kind,” he writes. 
Jesus’ disciples aren't any better than we are when it comes to envy. In today’s Gospel, Jesus is trying to tell them important things about his approaching death, and they aren’t listening. They can’t concentrate on what their teacher is saying, because they are too preoccupied with their own ambition and envy. Like the brother and sister in Judy Blume’s book, they might have been grumbling things like: “Peter thinks he’s so great and strong just because Jesus calls him The Rock. It so served him right when Jesus yelled out, 'Get behind me Satan!' the other day, when that 'Rock' dared to protest the strange talk about our Lord dying. Maybe now Jesus will think that I’m the strongest one?” Or “Could you believe it back there in that town when somebody recognized Matthew as a former tax collector and started throwing rotten garbage on him? I thought that I would fall down, I was laughing so hard! Maybe now that Matthew has been disgraced, I’ll get to have more respect around here from the others.”
          And what does Jesus do when he overhears his disciples arguing and putting one another down in order to raise themselves up? He grabs the nearest child and takes her up in his arms and says to his envying band of followers: "Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes not me but the one who sent me." What does he mean? Why a child? Why not a leper, or a blind beggar?
          Children, I need a volunteer to help me now. I need at least one child to come up here so that I can welcome you in Jesus’ name! [I will have arranged beforehand to get at least one child up here!]  …. OK, so if I’m going to truly welcome _______, if I’m really going to make her feel God’s love right now, what am I going to have to do? If I stand straight and stiff up here and stick out my robed hand and pat her on the head, that’s not a real welcome, is it? If she’s going to feel wanted and loved, I’m going to need to get down here on the floor, aren’t I? [Sit down on the floor and make a production of it]. I’m going to have to climb down out of my fancy perch in the pulpit, and bend my creaky knees, risking getting stuck down here or sliding around ungracefully on our nice new hardwood floor. I’m going to have to put away the safety of my manuscript, and look her in the eyes on her level if I’m going to welcome her.
          In choosing a child, Jesus lifts up to us the silent ones, the least and littlest, the vulnerable outsiders. But he does more than that. He also forces us to change our positions. We cannot truly welcome the vulnerable unless we ourselves become vulnerable—unless we bend down low, unless we lay aside our rigid frameworks about how the world works and move outside of our comfort zones.[4] [send kid/s back to seat.]
          On Friday, I joined about a thousand other Louisvillians at the River Road Islamic Center, where unidentified vandals had spray-painted hate-filled red graffiti across the back wall of this mosque. Having read today’s lessons, I wondered how many of our hate crimes are at least partly fueled by envy. Doubting that we have a place in God’s creation, we want to be sure that no one else has one, either. Doubting that we matter in this world, we want to let everyone know that some other group doesn’t matter, either. Empty and bitter, we lash out secretly in ugly words and destructive acts. As I stood there in the hot sun, getting bit by mosquitoes and listening to politicians instead of working on my sermon, I could imagine myself being drawn down onto my knees. I wasn’t bending down to welcome a child, but I was bending my comforting routine. I was bending the stiff joints of my Friday schedule. I was looking at the world from behind a mosque, a foreign architectural form. I was standing with Jews and Muslims, black and white, in a common cause that was outside of the formal structures of my own religion. The day wasn’t about me; it wasn’t all about my church, my religion, my special causes. It wasn’t all about any  one of us standing there. It was about the love of God for each of us. The outpouring, unending, overflowing love of God for each of us, just the same.
          The sin of envy dogs us when we do not believe that we are loved. If Jesus loves a child, a child without accomplishments, without status, then Jesus loves each of us for who we are deep within, not for what we do. There is nothing that we have to do in order to earn that love. There is nothing that we can do to lose it. In order to feel that love, all we have to do is to bend down, lay down our armor, put away our red spray paint, and hold out our hands, too, to the least and the last, to our brother and to our sister. In our mutual gaze, we will find envy replaced with love, as we look into the very face of God.


[1] Judy Blume, The Pain and the Great One (New York: Atheneum Books for Young Readers, 2014).
[2] Rebecca K. DeYoung, Glittering Vices (Grand Rapids, Michigan: Brazos Press), 51.
[3] Ibid., 48.
 [4] For the idea of bending down, thank you to the Rev. Dr. Brad Wigger in his Convocation address, “A Little Child Shall Lead Them,” Louisville Presbyterian Theological Seminary, February 6, 2014. Found at http://www.lpts.edu/docs/default-source/about_us-chapel_sermons_text/wigger2-6-14.pdf?sfvrsn=2

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