"Do not be afraid; I am the first and the last, and the living one. I was dead, and see, I am alive forever and ever; and I have the keys of Death and of Hades. Now write what you have seen, what is, and what is to take place after this." Rev. 1:17-19.

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Where You Went to Highschool Doesn't Matter in Tragedy ... or in Christ


         “Where did you go to high school?”
When I first came to Louisville, I didn’t realize the importance of that seemingly innocuous question! “High school?” I would wonder. “If strangers are going to make conversation with me, why don’t they ask me where I went to college or where I work, for goodness’ sake?” The Question can begin with an appraising glance, a piercing look balanced upon an invisible measuring stick, a haughty hesitation that expects a certain answer. Or it can pop out in a spontaneous, friendly way. But however the question is asked, in this town, whether one spent four years at St. X or Trinity, Sacred Heart or Assumption, St. Francis or Collegiate, Male or Manual or PRP … that is the standard by which we categorize one another. So ingrained is this way of thinking that people don’t really know what to do with you if you say that you grew up in another town. I know that when I would tell people that I went to high school in Houston, they might look at me with wide, uncomprehending eyes, unsure how to proceed with me, until I learned to interject that my mother grew up here and graduated from Atherton. Only then could they relax, able to place me in a known category.
          In Louisville, already a city with clear geographical divides of race and class, we mentally line up our dividing walls around our high schools, creating a complex mix of subtle partitions that juggle differences in religion, class, race, academics, wealth, and even sports. So engrained is this way of thinking, that we often don’t even realize that we are judging when we ask the high school question, but we are. Perhaps St. Paul, if he were writing today to Christians in Louisville, would argue, “Christ is our peace; in his flesh he has made all high schools into one and has broken down the dividing wall... He has abolished social cliques with their rules and etiquette, that he might create in himself one new humanity, thus making peace.”
          I sighed as I read today’s Scripture lessons that point out so clearly that Almighty God cannot be enclosed in a house built by human hands or human minds, and that Christianity is to be a religion without dividing walls. You don’t even need a sermon from me in order to recognize the truth of these things. And yet, where is that promised peace and unity in Christ? It is so easy to say that Christians are supposed to welcome everyone into one family in Christ, that we are all supposed to get along, that the dividing walls are to be no more. We don’t seem to be any closer to attaining it today, though, than the quarreling Jewish and Greco-Roman Christians were in Paul’s day. Even in a loving Christian community like St. Thomas, one can often see walls between age groups, between parishioners and staff, between present vestry and past vestry, between ministry groups, between church and preschool, between parishioners and “renters.” In our diocese, we maintain walls of rivalry between one parish and another, and our churches can’t seem to breach those walls that divide Louisville into separate enclaves. (I am ashamed to admit that I have never set foot in either St. George’s or in Messiah-Trinity, and I doubt that I am alone.) At the wider church level, as we work to break down a wall to include one group, we often alienate another group, who start piling up stones for a new wall on the other side. And of course, among clergy, the question is not, “Where did you go to high school?” but is instead a sneakily suspicious, “Where did you go to seminary?” as we roam between partitions made of theology and churchmanship.
          Strangely enough, it is not joyful worship but tragedy that seems to push us to tear down our dividing walls. That movie theater in Aurora, Colorado, was made up of people from different high schools, ages, classes, churches, political parties, and races. They were sitting peacefully next to one another, ready to lose themselves in a story, rather like we do in our church services. Yet, there too, the peace was only surface deep. A discussion or a common project or, Lord knows, a committee meeting, would have stirred up the judging wall-builder within each one of them. When the larger-than-life deranged gunman entered, however, and tore through their lives with evil and death and sprays of bullets, these strangers suddenly became brothers and sisters. According to the news reports, they shielded one another, pulled one another to safety, collapsed with relief on one another when it was over, and reached out to the families of strangers who had died. The survivors of that attack are now members of a community so strong that the dividing walls have all come tumbling down. I would even venture to say that our compassionate God now dwells in the midst of them. And if we were to meet one of them on the street, we would not ask him where he went to high school. We would not ask her if she were gay or if she believed in Evolution. We would not turn up our noses at the way he dressed or spoke. We would automatically reach out with love and offers of help.
          As good, obedient Christians, we try to make peace and unity happen in our communities like we try to get people not to chat noisily in their pews before the service. We think that it is something that we can moralize about and will upon ourselves as we sit in meetings and in the pews. According to Paul in our lesson from Ephesians, however, peace and unity are the result of Jesus Christ entering our lives and our communities in a powerful way—almost, dare I say it, with the force and overwhelming drama of a madman entering a movie theater. The shock of God upon the Cross is supposed to rip through our lives like a spray of bullets. The powerful promise of Life in Christ is supposed to unite us just as strongly as the threat of death from a killer with a gun.
          We read in our Gospel lesson of the transformative power that Jesus had over the crowds. All anyone had to do was to touch the fringe of his cloak, and they were healed. When he traveled throughout the Galilee, the crowds followed him everywhere. So hungry and desperate were people for the healing and new life that Jesus and his followers could give them that they pestered them without ceasing, not even letting them eat a meal in peace, racing ahead of their boat to meet them when they tried to get away for a rest.
          So … what is missing today? Where is Christ’s commanding presence among us, his followers? Where are the crowds? Why are our communities transformed by the aftermath of sin and death, yet not by the power of life? Paul writes, “Jesus himself is the cornerstone. In him the whole structure is joined together and grows into a holy temple in the Lord … into a dwelling place for God.” Perhaps we, like Nathan and David, have been too busy planning our own dwellings for God, rather than letting ourselves be inhabited by Christ. We Christians are now the Body of Christ; we are the ones with the arms and legs to walk into the crowds and bring healing in Christ’s Name. We are the ones to turn things upside down by our proclamation of a crucified God. Is that what we are doing? We are only in unity insofar as we are in Christ, bringing Life and caring for his sheep.
          I can actually give you all a fresh, real-life example today of what I am talking about. When you get home, go to the St. Thomas Facebook page and take a look at the picture of the five children from this week’s first annual Reading Camp standing in front of our church. You will see five elementary school children who will probably attend five different high schools. This picture could be a poster for racial diversity. The children have their arms around each other in genuine affection, and they have huge smiles on their faces. These are children who have trouble in school and who spend most of the school year “like sheep without a shepherd,” not needy enough to receive special services in the classroom, yet struggling to keep up with their classmates. Yet, they had so much fun working on their reading skills all morning at St. Thomas and then receiving attention and affection from St. Thomas parishioners all afternoon, that they didn’t want the week to end. This Reading Camp was a lot of work for our volunteers. Our parish is so small that it was a risk for us to plan on inviting even 5 or 6 children to a complex camp like this one. We had to raise money with a silent auction at Bluegrass and Burgoo, and that was a lot of stress for many of you. We had to cook and serve two meals each day at our camp; we had to have transportation for field trips; we had to plan lessons almost from scratch; we had to figure out logistics; we had to displace two important groups in our parish to have room in the Fellowship Hall. And yet …. I saw nothing but peace and unity this week at Reading Camp. I saw older parishioners and teens and even some out-of-town family members who joined us, working together with huge smiles on their faces. I saw a public school working hand in hand with a Christian church for the good of the community. I saw compassion. I saw healing. I saw the Body of Christ. Will this Reading Camp change the East End? No. Will this Reading Camp “grow our church?” No, I doubt that we will get any new members from it. But, by allowing us to reach out in Christ’s Name, to proclaim the Life and Healing that Christ offers to us all, it brought us one step closer to becoming “citizens with the saints” and “members of the household of God,” a dwelling place in Christ. That is the kind of growth that every parish needs more of, even the big ones. Giving of ourselves as Christ’s Body is not easy, but it is the only way to peace and unity within. It is the only way to combat the insidious divisions among us and the only way to transform the world with light and life, not darkness and death.

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